Her Fiancé’s Daughter Moved Into Her House And Started Breaking All Of Her Dishes, So Now She Wants Her To Pay To Replace Them All Or Find Somewhere Else To Live
This 38-year-old woman has a 46-year-old fiancé named Jake, who just moved into her home six months ago.
And two months afterward, her fiancé’s 21-year-old daughter Kari moved in as well.
She’s had this home for a number of years and was excited to start a life together with Jake. However, Kari’s childish behavior is causing a lot of tension.
Kari had been living with her mother far away from her father and only really saw him around four times a year. Kari then moved closer to Jake when she decided that she wanted to attend a college nearby.
But, when Kari changed her mind about school, Jake suggested that his daughter moves along with him.
She agreed because she had heard good things about her fiancé’s daughter and had already met Kari a handful of times. However, she would soon learn that Kari would not be the easiest person to live with!
“Kari is lazy. She doesn’t do chores, no cleaning or cooking, not even her own laundry. She leaves a mess everywhere she goes, doesn’t listen when I ask her to help out, rolls her eyes, and continuously mocks me,” she explained.
The lack of taking care of herself, as well as acting entitled and rude toward her, made her quite frustrated and annoyed with Kari. She was also ticked off at Jake for not seeing it.
When brought to his attention, Jake simply said that Kari was only a kid and needed time, patience, and understanding. She, however, thinks Kari needs a wake-up call.
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Recently, Kari has started to put her dishes away by tossing them from halfway between the sink in the dining room table, which measures several feet away.
But, the majority of her dishes are ceramic or made of glass. So, when they are thrown from this distance, they get shattered and ruined.
“I’m at the point of using paper plates, cups, and bowls because I don’t have enough dishes any more. I’ve told and snapped at Kari to stop many times, but she does it anyway, giggles, and says, ‘Oops, sorry, guess I forgot,’ and practically skips out of the kitchen,” she revealed.
And at this point, she has had it with the disrespect and destruction that is happening in her own home because of this young adult. That’s why she told Jake that either Kari needs to pay for the broken dishes or move back in with her mom or her grandparents.
This behavior is unacceptable to her, but Jake doesn’t seem to care and doesn’t contemplate the idea that Kari could be being destructive on purpose.
Instead, he just thinks she is being rude toward his child and claimed he would forever be angry with her if she decides to kick Kari out.
Do you think she needs to be more patient with Kari, or do you think she is right in getting Kari to either pay up or move out? Do you think she should stay with Jake even though he tolerates this behavior?
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