Chip Chick
Through their texts, he gathered that she was struggling financially. He let her know that if things went well between them as they were reconnecting, he would be happy to help her out.
But due to her still living with her ex and being a no-show, he would have to gain more trust in her. To this, she claimed that she was capable of taking care of herself and didn’t need his help.
A week after she stood him up for the second time, she texted him in the middle of the night, asking him if she could come over.
He replied yes and was excited to finally see her. Before she left, after sharing some wine and kissing one another, he asked if they could meet up again, and she claimed that she would love that.
The following day, she asks him if he could drop her off at the airport, and he says that he definitely could.
“The day arrives that I’m supposed to drop her off, and once again…nothing. I hear back from her two days later claiming she broke her phone,” he said.
She ended up ghosting him like this an additional four times! More recently, she sent him a screenshot of an email she received from her landlord about an eviction notice.
While he apologized that this was going on, that is where he left it. She, however, was angry that he didn’t offer to pay her rent!
“I replied that she has bailed every time we were supposed to hang, all we do is text, and I don’t trust her based on her past behavior,” he stated.
She continued to argue with him, claiming that if he really and truly cared about her, he would have given her the money and asked no questions.
He thought this was a bit of a stretch, and his family and friends were on his side about it. However, his coworker told him that if he wanted another relationship with his ex, maybe he should have given her the rent money.
