Her Brother Is Either Dating Or Hooking Up With Her Ex-Boyfriend’s Mistress, So She Told Her Brother He’s Not Invited To Her Wedding Until He Stops Talking To This Girl For Good
In October, this 30-year-old woman is marrying her fiancé, also 30.
However, before she met her current fiancé, she was in a five-year relationship with Zach, whom she met while working at a restaurant.
She was in school to be a teacher and worked part-time at the restaurant, and Zach worked as a server every day. Because she didn’t work as many hours, she wasn’t as close to their other co-workers as Zach was.
Three years into her and Zach’s relationship, a huge group of co-workers planned a trip to celebrate the upcoming weddings of two women who worked at the restaurant.
For the trip, they rented a big house in Las Vegas.
“I was always an outsider of this group because I have a teaching job and couldn’t go out every night after work as they did,” she explained.
Even though she didn’t have a lot in common with anyone in the group, she decided to attend the trip because everyone was really friendly, and she needed a vacation.
“Anyways, it came out there that Zach had been hooking up with one girl that we worked with, who was also on the trip,” she shared.
“This girl was always nice to my face, and I thought we were cool. When I found out they’d been hooking up, I realized everyone knew, but me, and it was traumatizing, to say the least. I was stuck hundreds of miles away from home with my cheating boyfriend, his mistress, and all THEIR friends.”
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After the trip, she and Zach broke up for a year and a half, but they started dating again for about a year before breaking up for good. Later on, she met her now-fiancé.
Throughout her life, she and her 28-year-old brother have always had a strong relationship.
“We come from a military family and usually just had each other as kids,” she said. “We have sibling tattoos and meet up monthly to hang out and catch up.”
“This summer, on a family lake trip, I figured out my brother was dating and/or hooking up with the said girl.”
“I became extremely upset that he would allow someone into his life who knowingly and purposely caused me so much pain. He tried hiding it and then got extremely defensive when he knew I found out.”
Then, she told him he was no longer invited to her wedding until he said sorry and cut off contact with the girl.
She understandably didn’t want her special day to be tarnished by her brother’s disloyal and hurtful actions.
Also, she was rightfully worried that even if he did make an apology, he would bring the girl to the wedding. She felt concerned that her brother would eventually develop a more serious relationship with the girl.
Unfortunately, she and her brother hadn’t talked in two months, and her parents think she needs to move on.
What would you do if you were in her shoes?
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