She considered her sister’s request and ultimately made the decision against allowing her sister to bring her new boyfriend.
Her reasoning was that there was already tension between her and her sister as it is, and she wanted to have a smaller wedding with guests whom she knew were supportive and with whom she felt comfortable.
“I told my sister that we were having a small wedding and couldn’t accommodate plus ones for people we didn’t know well,” she said.
“She didn’t take it well. She accused me of bad things, like not being happy for her and not wanting her to enjoy the day as much as I would. After a while, I was sick of her and told her she was not invited anymore. I brought up the hurtful comment she made about my fiancé and how that played a role in my decision and that she doesn’t respect my boundaries. She got defensive and said I was overreacting.”
After being uninvited from the wedding, her sister talked to several members of the family, claiming that she was being irrational and that she was using a rude comment about her fiancé’s weight to leave her sister out of the wedding.
Unfortunately, some of the family took her sister’s side and reached out to say that she should put all the issues with her sister aside and invite her to the wedding.
What would you do if you were in her shoes?
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