Abby Connolly
When it comes to being a good girlfriend, there’s a lot of pressure to be perfect.
However, being a great girlfriend isn’t all about looking your best and catering to someone’s every need. A lot of it involves learning how to be emotionally supportive and looking out for someone while still taking care of yourself.
So whether you’ve just entered a new relationship or are in your first-ever relationship, here are a few tips on how to be a great girlfriend.
While this tip may sound off-topic, it’s important. You want to make sure you have your own life outside of your relationship. Before thinking about how you can be a better partner, you want to make sure your relationship isn’t the center of your universe. Otherwise, you might get too caught up in it or too dependent on your partner.
Therefore, you should ensure you still value and keep in touch with your friends and family outside of your relationship. Keep things in check with your career, and always carve out time for your passions and hobbies.
Another important tip is to avoid being passive-aggressive whenever an issue arises. Whether you and your partner find yourself at odds because of a big or small issue, being direct about how you feel is much better than dancing around things.
Being passive-aggressive only creates more tension and confusion. For instance, if your boyfriend were to ask you if something was wrong, he’d much more appreciate you explaining what’s going on instead of passively saying, “Nothing.”
A great girlfriend also gives great compliments. It’s important that both people in a relationship compliment each other and are vocally appreciative, so make sure you’re doing your part.
A great compliment that will make your partner feel great goes beyond telling them they look good. If you’re looking for a new way to compliment your boyfriend, think of something specific to his personality and what makes him special.
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