He Keeps Telling His Wife To Go See Her Dying Son, Who Has One Month Left To Live, But His Wife Is Refusing
This man’s wife, Sara, 39, has a son named Vicky, 20, from her last marriage.
Due to the timing and the way he and Sara started dating, there was tension during her divorce from her ex-husband.
The drama deeply affected Vicky, who was 8 years old during the ordeal.
For several years, Sara attempted to provide Vicky with emotional support.
“But it was like the more she tried, the further away he got. It came to a head when he was 12, and she caught him trying to smoke, and then he almost broke her jaw when she stopped him. After that, she stopped trying to force custody and just let him stay with his dad,” he said.
During the fight, Vicky struck Sara with a hockey stick, and then he kicked her. This caused her to fall, and this was how her jaw was injured.
Since the incident, Sara forgave Vicky. Despite the trauma she endured, she understood that he was going through a difficult time because of her divorce.
Obviously, she still loved Vicky since he was her son, but she was concerned that if she allowed Vicky to keep living with her, his violent behavior would escalate. She worried that he would hurt other children like he’d hurt her.
Before she came to the decision to end her custody, she brought Vicky to therapy, but he wasn’t receptive to it.
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When Vicky was 14, he and Sara had a son together.
Sara sent Vicky a message to let him know about the birth of his half-brother. In the message, she added that even though he may not want to see her, he could still have love for his half-brother.
In response, Vicky told her to leave him alone.
Three years later, Sara gave birth to their daughter, and she reached out to Vicky once more, but he never answered.
Besides the birth of their children, Sara tried reaching out to Vicky sometimes, but he never got back to her.
She continued trying to communicate with Vicky up until he graduated high school. Before his graduation, her ex was pleading with him to invite her to come to the ceremony, but Vicky rejected the idea.
Over the years, Sara sent Vicky birthday gifts and money.
Three days ago, Sara’s ex called her, and he was sobbing on the phone.
Her ex informed her that Vicky had cancer and that he received the diagnosis way too late. Ideally, doctors have given him only about six months left to live.
“Vicky’s been begging to see her. So, I told my wife to go and spend the month with him. She can work online for a month, take a leave, or just quit if they don’t understand. However, she refused. She’s used everything, from work to needing to take care of our kids to even ‘What if it’s just a trick to hurt me more?’ as excuses not to go. At the same time, she keeps crying, muttering about thinking she had more time, ignoring our kids, looking at old photo albums of her and Vicky,” he explained.
A couple of mornings ago, he saw Sara having an emotional meltdown in her car before she left for work. He walked out of the house and to her car and pleaded with her to change her mind.
In response, she called him a jerk for trying to coerce her into seeing Vicky.
While he acknowledges that Vicky isn’t his son, he knows that it’s not his decision to make, but he doesn’t want Sara to have any regrets since she is clearly devastated.
What would you have done if you were in his shoes?
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