She Fell In Love With Her Best Friend, Saved Up $50,000 To Buy Her A House, And Then Got Dumped Because She Obviously Cannot Help Her Have A Child Naturally
This 24-year-old girl had a 25-year-old best friend named Lexi, and they were close for three years before their friendship evolved into something more.
Prior to getting into a serious relationship with Lexi, Lexi had never dated women or even expressed an interest in them.
But, as she and Lexi grew closer and closer over this past year, dating became a natural next step for them.
“Every night after her serving shift, she would come over and either stay over, or we would stay up talking super late,” she explained.
“There were times I would walk her to her car so she could go home, but then we would end up talking for hours in her car. Lo and behold, I found myself falling in love with her. We would call each other multiple times a day, spend every moment we could with each other, text constantly, call each other goodnight, basically acting like a couple.”
“I eventually realized I couldn’t keep this up, so I told her I had feelings for her. I was worried about ruining our friendship, but I realized it was sort of already ruined if I couldn’t be honest with her about how I felt. What’s crazy is that Lexi, with tears in her eyes, had feelings for me, too!”
They spent a little time apart after that but then wound up dating for 8 consecutive months. She was so happy in a relationship with Lexi.
She was in love with Lexi, and Lexi loved her right back. She got to meet Lexi’s family, who adored her, and Lexi got to meet her family with the same results.
She then began saving up money to be able to invest in their future. She and Lexi discussed having children, and it’s certainly not cheap.
Galina – stock.adobe.com- illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
She ended up being able to set aside $50,000 with the hopes of being able to buy them a house in the near future.
“I had mentioned this to her in one of our conversations, and she didn’t seem to be fazed,” she said.
“A few weeks after this, she breaks up with me because she has always wanted to conceive a child naturally and doesn’t see herself with a woman because of this.”
“She told me that she has never loved anyone the way that she loves me, but her dream is to be a mother, and because I’m a woman, I can’t [get her pregnant].”
“She says this all with tears in her eyes, and I’m incredibly heartbroken. I love her, and I want her to be happy, but I can’t help but still have hope for us. She wants to remain best friends, and I honestly don’t want to lose her. I don’t know what to think or do. I love her so much, and I know she loves me. Her last statement to me was, “I’m scared that I just lost my soulmate.” That broke me.”
She’s really not sure what to do since she knows it’s not really good for her to remain best friends with Lexi, but she’s afraid to not have Lexi in her life in any capacity at all.
She’s left wondering if she should give Lexi some space or if she should continue on as her best friend, knowing they can’t be together.
What do you think?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
If true crime defines your free time, this is for you: join Chip Chick’s True Crime Tribe
How To Decorate Your Home In The Art Deco Style
Sign up for Chip Chick’s newsletter and get stories like this delivered to your inbox.
More About:Romance
