She’s Forcing Her Husband To Choose Between Her And His Girl Best Friend After He Drunkenly Admitted To Having Feelings For Her
In this woman’s experience, she has always felt uneasy about staying friendly with people she has had a romantic attraction to, people who used to have a crush on her, or people who she used to have some sort of relationship with while she was dating someone else.
From her perspective, remaining friends with people with whom she’s had a history would be both illogical and unfair to her current partner. However, she acknowledges that not everyone feels the same way, and some people may be more comfortable with these situations.
Since the beginning of her relationship with her now-husband, she has expressed her views. She felt like it was particularly relevant since he had a female best friend.
Now, she and her husband have been married for two years and together for five years total.
“It’s always a fight to get my husband to cut things off with his ‘girl best friend,'” she said.
In her opinion, the friendship between her husband and his friend seems quite unbalanced. While her husband is constantly contacting his friend to vent about his marriage problems, his friend, on the other hand, only contacts him when she’s experiencing loneliness or needs something in particular from him.
“It’s almost like she’s a necessity in his life, and he can’t go on without her,” she explained.
Understandably, she’s tired of constantly fighting with her husband about this, and she’s frustrated that he doesn’t seem to care that his friendship with this woman makes her extremely uneasy.
“One time, after some drinking, he admitted he used to have feelings for her, though I’ve always been uncomfortable with the relationship far before he confessed this,” she shared.
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A few nights ago, she reached her limit with the ongoing situation. She gave her husband an ultimatum and said that if he doesn’t cease communication with this woman, she will be filing for divorce. She believes that her husband’s behavior has been incredibly unfair to her, especially since he’s never taken her emotions into consideration or tried to change to make her feel more comfortable.
In response, her husband said that this ultimatum hurt him, and he didn’t think he should have to end his friendship despite the fact that it’s caused so many problems in their relationship and marriage over the past several years.
After the argument, her husband seemed depressed yet appeared to quickly accept that they may be divorcing because of his refusal to stop talking to his friend.
Understandably, she is crushed that her husband will most likely choose his friend over their marriage. She can’t comprehend why he would make that decision instead of ending the friendship in order to salvage their marriage and work through their issues.
Do you think she was wrong to give her husband an ultimatum?
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