He Doesn’t Like That His Girlfriend Goes Out Drinking With Her Guy Friends, So He Went Out With A Group Of His Female Friends To Give Her A Taste Of Her Own Medicine
This guy has been dating his girlfriend for over three years, and right now, she is pursuing her Master’s degree. So, she currently lives on her school’s campus and has a group of friends comprised of three women and three guys.
Now, to be clear, he has no problem with how his girlfriend spends her free time during the day. It’s also important to note that he doesn’t drink, and when he first began dating his girlfriend, she didn’t, either.
However, all of a sudden, his girlfriend began going out to grab drinks with her friends. Then, these hangouts shifted into entire nights out on the town.
“And we initially had an agreement that she wouldn’t drink, but she did it,” he recalled.
In addition to the hangouts, his girlfriend has been planning a trip with her friend group, too.
He claims that he wouldn’t have had any problems with this, either, if he knew that his girlfriend was going to stay sober.
“But then I came to know about her drinking again, and I’m not really comfortable with it,” he said.
That’s why he decided to “balance things out” and go out with a couple of his female friends for a night. He realizes that was a toxic move, and it seemingly made his girlfriend jealous, too, since she called him three times throughout the evening.
He didn’t pick up the calls, either, since his phone was on automatic do not disturb while he and his friends were playing Minecraft. But, he claimed that he never called his girlfriend when she went out with her group.
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“I would just expect her to text back telling me she’s doing okay, which she responds to either a couple of hours late or in the morning,” he added.
And now, ever since trying to give his girlfriend a taste of her own medicine, he’s been left wondering if that was really the wrong thing to do. Also, he’s not sure how to handle her going out drinking with her guy friends in the future.
“I did see a future with this girl, but these things bother me a little,” he vented.
Have you ever had a girlfriend who went out drinking with guy friends? Do you think that should be off-limits, or should he be more trusting of his girlfriend? How do you suggest he handles this situation?
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