Her Husband Always Expects Her To Wear Her Wedding Ring, But He’s Lost His Wedding Band Twice In Three Years And Doesn’t Think He Has To Wear One Because He’s A Man
This woman and her husband, who is a salesperson, have been married for three years. Yet, he has already gone through two wedding bands– losing both of them.
So, she talked to her husband about getting a new wedding band, asking him if he wanted her to purchase one for him multiple times in the past. Every time, he also seemed on board and agreed with the idea.
“But when I brought it up this morning, he got really defensive,” she recalled.
Apparently, her husband tried to claim that men can still cheat even if they were a wedding band. However, she pointed out how she wasn’t concerned about other men– she was only thinking about her own husband.
Afterward, he told her that none of the men in his family even wear wedding bands. But according to her, she has seen otherwise, and they do, in fact, wear them.
Her husband seems to expect a double standard, too, since he always wants her to wear her rings.
“He says that because I’m a woman, I need to wear one, but he doesn’t have to because he’s a man,” she revealed.
Her husband also gets weird whenever men approach her– claiming that she gives them “signals” that she’s interested. So, he always becomes seriously jealous whenever men show her any attention.
But again, her husband seems to operate by a double standard. Just recently, for instance, another salesperson began flirting with her husband when he went shopping with his mom.
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His mom actually brought it up afterward, too, but her husband apparently told his mom that “she understands.”
Now, she realizes that her husband is an attractive person. So, she cannot get angry at innocent women for showing interest in him– especially when he’s not wearing a ring.
“I get angry when he doesn’t shut it down or wear a ring,” she vented.
And since her husband expects her to wear her ring, she thinks it’s only fair that he does the same.
Still, with her husband now upset with her, she’s been left wondering if asking him to wear a wedding band again was somehow the wrong thing to do.
Do you think it’s suspicious that her husband has lost two different wedding bands in such a short amount of time? Why do you think he immediately brought up how men who wear wedding bands still cheat when she asked about buying him a new one? Is it fair that she’s held to a different standard? What would you do in her shoes?
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