He Finally Wants To Break Up With His Girlfriend Because He Found Out She’d Texted Her Ex, And That Was His Last Straw

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This 22-year-old man has been dating his girlfriend, who is 19, for about a year now. They also currently live together.

But he’s recently been experiencing an overwhelming urge to actually end their relationship and part ways with his girlfriend.

For him, the tipping point happened on Thanksgiving– when he found out that his girlfriend had texted her ex-boyfriend and actually asked if the guy could pick her up while he was sleeping!

“I felt very betrayed by this, and I’ve been cheating on in the past. She knew this,” he said.

So, after realizing that his girlfriend had been unfaithful, that really pushed him over the line, and he realized that he wanted to break up with her.

However, there were also a bunch of other issues in their relationship. That’s why the urge to end their relationship has slowly grown over the past year.

“Because I realized how she is as a person,” he revealed.

For instance, he’s been the only one who’s worked throughout the entirety of their relationship. His girlfriend, on the other hand, hasn’t even been able to hold down a job.

Yet, whenever he gets home from work, their house is still a disaster. In fact, it’s even dirtier than he left it in the morning.

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He claimed that dishes are always piling up, and laundry never seems to get done.

“It just seems like she sits on her phone all day while I’m working trying to further our lives together,” he vented.

And after discovering the texts between his girlfriend and her ex on Thanksgiving, he just doesn’t think that he can remain in their relationship anymore.

But, before he pulls the trigger, he’s been left wondering if wanting to break up with his girlfriend after everything that has happened makes him a jerk or not.

How would you feel if you found out your partner was texting their ex on Thanksgiving? Can you understand why he’s become increasingly frustrated with his girlfriend throughout their relationship? If you were in his shoes, would you break up with her or not?

You can read the original post on Reddit here.

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Katharina Buczek graduated from Stony Brook University with a degree in Journalism and a minor in Digital Arts. Specializing ... More about Katharina Buczek

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