Her Friend Was Ghosted By Her Boyfriend After They Made Plans To Move In Together, Leaving Her Homeless
Getting ghosted, in general, is an abhorrent experience. Ghosting usually occurs after a few months of talking to someone when the relationship has not had time to develop fully.
But can you imagine being ghosted after a year-long relationship? That’s just disgraceful, especially considering all the hours and feelings invested during that period.
TikToker Taye (@taye_taye_) is telling a story about how her friend was ghosted by a guy she had been dating for a year after they had made plans to move in together.
So, her friend had been seeing this guy for nearly a year. She had met his parents and introduced him to her friends, so things were pretty serious.
However, they had never really defined their relationship with a specific label or talked about what they were to each other. Still, it was clear they were dating.
Taye’s friend did some traveling in Europe for two months. Before she left, she had planned to move in with her boyfriend when she returned to Australia. The details were all sorted out, and she had discussed it with his parents. She moved all her stuff out of her place and stored it at her parent’s house while she traveled.
While in Europe, she noticed that he seemed a little withdrawn, but it was hard to tell through text messages, not to mention the time difference.
When she got back to Australia, there were still a couple of weeks left before she would be moving into his place. He still wasn’t replying to her much, and he didn’t seem very enthusiastic when he did respond.
She was confused and kept trying to ask him what was wrong. When the day came for her to move in with him, she drove down to his place. She called him multiple times, but he never picked up his phone. He had basically just ghosted her!
Tierney – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
She was at a loss because she now had nowhere to stay. She attempted to contact his friends for some answers, but they remained tight-lipped.
For the next couple of weeks, she ended up crashing at the houses of some friends in the area. Finally, she started to receive some messages from him. She got the sense that he was feeling a little guilty about something, but she couldn’t figure out what since he wasn’t communicating properly.
After a couple of weeks, he said she could move in with him. But now, she no longer wanted to because the situation seemed weird. Ultimately, she did move in with him. She felt like she couldn’t just abandon the relationship. After all, they had been dating for a year.
When she moved in, he continued his strange behavior of icing her out. It was like they were just roommates. He would also return home with girls’ clothing after a night out. So, she began looking for rentals in the area so she could get out of the situation, and eventually, she found a place.
@taye_taye_ This story takes the cake!! Thank you to my friend for allowing to share this, a lot of details I probably missed that are a lot worse but can you imagine yoiur partner straight up ghosting you ?? #itsonsight #terribledatingstories #datingstorytime #datingadvice #baddatingstories
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