Her Husband Has Been Cheating And Trying To Have A Baby With His Mistress, So She Posted The Evidence Of His Affair Online

Syda Productions - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Syda Productions - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

Six years ago, this 30-year-old woman got married to her 33-year-old husband, and they have been in a relationship for 14 years in total.

Unfortunately, she discovered close to a month ago that her husband has been cheating on her for an entire year.

She came across the conversations her husband had with his mistress, which included him and this other woman talking about wanting to have a baby together and exchanging I love yous.

They also spoke in great detail about how much they had been sleeping together. This entire time, she thought her husband was frequently taking work trips, but nope, he had another woman on the side that he was seeing.

She also uncovered messages where her husband said he was planning on leaving her so he could be with this other woman. Ironically, her husband was on one of his work trips when she came across the messages.

As soon as she found out all of this, she instantly called her husband up in tears, asking him to explain to her who this other woman was.

Her husband simply said over the phone that this woman was just a friend, despite her having the evidence stating otherwise.

“I hung up the call because I was crying [until] I couldn’t breathe, and he did not bother calling back at all,” she said.

“Only after when I posted their pics on Facebook exposing the affair he called back screaming at me, asking why I posted that and now that his friends knew. I did not sleep for the whole night, all night, I was lying there crying so much that my whole body ached.”

Syda Productions – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

“I think back on all the moments we had together and what I have done to deserve this. The next morning I got a message from him saying he had already booked a flight back in the evening. Turns out he was with her the entire night while I was at home, crying and couldn’t sleep.”

In the month that has passed since her discovering the ugly truth, she says this has been the hardest part of her life so far.

Her husband claims he wants to work on things with them and that he ended his affair, so that proves he picked her.

She just doesn’t believe anything her husband says. A piece of her would like to give her husband a second chance, but there’s also a voice inside urging her to leave her husband.

Over the last several years, she has struggled with depression, but she was improving throughout this whole year.

Sadly, after finding out about her husband’s affair, it’s put her into a deep, dark hole that she can’t figure out how to crawl out of.

“I have never felt this kind of level of pain or emptiness before,” she continued. “Every day, I wake up feeling so empty and hurt that it aches even when I breathe.”

What advice do you have for her?

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