His Girlfriend Kept Badgering Him To Reveal What Friends Of Her’s He Finds Attractive, But After He Finally Picked, She Got Upset
This guy is currently in a relationship, and recently, his girlfriend returned home after work one day and told him that she and her coworkers had been discussing what celebrities they find most attractive.
At that point, she revealed what celebrities she’d picked. She also asked him what famous people he found appealing, and he told her a few names of celebrities.
Then, she proceeded to open up about how some of her coworkers had admitted to finding some of their partners’ friends attractive. And this was when the situation became really sticky.
Apparently, his girlfriend straight-up asked him if he found any of her friends pretty. But, he understandably didn’t want to have that conversation, and he tried to tell his girlfriend that.
Well, she assured him that it wasn’t a “big deal” and even claimed to find one of his friends attractive. For some context, his girlfriend had never actually met that friend, but she’d seen photos of him and his friend together.
After that, he asked his girlfriend to drop the topic again, but she refused to stop.
“She wouldn’t drop it, so I got annoyed and said one of her friends, who I haven’t actually met but have seen photos of on social media,” he recalled.
“And I pointed out that there is a big difference between finding someone attractive and being attracted to them.”
Well, his girlfriend still got a bit defensive, claiming that she didn’t look anything like her friend. But honestly, he didn’t understand why that mattered since his girlfriend knew that he didn’t have a type.
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After all, all of his past partners had looked pretty different from each other.
So, he just wound up telling his girlfriend to quit asking questions that she didn’t want an honest answer to.
“And that she knew I refused to answer multiple times, but she wouldn’t let it go,” he added.
Regardless, his girlfriend kept going– asking whether or not he found his girlfriend’s friend more attractive than her. She even asked how long he’d thought that her friend was pretty.
Still, he just kept telling his girlfriend to drop it and claimed that it was stupid to fight over the issue– especially when he repeatedly tried to avoid discussing it.
Nonetheless, his girlfriend was adamant that there was nothing wrong with her asking some questions. She also accused him of being a jerk for getting frustrated, declining to answer most of the questions, and mentioning that he found her friend attractive– who doesn’t look anything like her.
So now, in the wake of their argument, he’s been left wondering if telling his girlfriend that he found just one of her friends attractive was really the wrong way to handle the situation.
Does it seem like he was stuck in a lose-lose situation? Why do you think his girlfriend pushed him so hard to pick one of her friends? Did he have a point that his girlfriend shouldn’t have asked the question if she didn’t want an honest answer? How would you have dealt with this?
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