She Wants To Dump Her Boyfriend Because She Found Out That He Was Leaking Their Private Texts In A Group Chat And Badmouthing Her
This woman and her boyfriend have been dating for six months, and they actually started off as colleagues before entering a romantic relationship.
According to her, her boyfriend was a completely different person back then, too.
“And he has definitely changed for the better,” she said.
However, she recently decided to download Discord, and some of her boyfriend’s friends invited her to join their friend group chat. She wanted to meet the rest of his friends, too, so she happily agreed.
Once she became a part of the group, she became quite close with everybody. She also put together a whole surprise, planning for her boyfriend to finally get to meet his friends in person.
But, for those who aren’t aware, you can actually “scroll up” in conversations on Discord from years ago– even if you weren’t in a chat when they were sent.
So, one day, a friend of her boyfriend’s randomly told her to scroll up through the chat and read the messages her boyfriend sent just two weeks before they started dating.
“I did, expecting him to be nice and say sweet things about how much he liked me,” she recalled.
Unfortunately, though, she found out that her boyfriend had done the complete opposite. In fact, he had taken screenshots of their private texts and sent them in the chat to all of his friends, asking rude questions like, “What is her problem?” and, “Is she really trying to flirt with me right now?”
Artem Zatsepilin – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
She claims that all of those screenshots were taken out of context. Plus, she is especially upset because, at the time, she was still in a really abusive relationship.
Yet, her now-boyfriend still sent screenshots of some of the messages that she would receive from her ex.
“Basically blasting me in the group chat for ‘cheating’ on my abusive ex,” she revealed.
After finding all of this out, she was understandably hurt and confronted her boyfriend about everything that she found.
But, all her boyfriend had to say was that he “wasn’t that person anymore” and that people could “change.”
Now, she does admit that her boyfriend has definitely changed over the course of their relationship, becoming much nicer as a person.
“But at the end of the day, I feel betrayed,” she vented.
That’s why she now actually wants to break up with her boyfriend ever since finding out that he leaked their text messages to his friends. However, before she pulls the trigger, she’s not sure if that’d be the right thing to do or not.
How would you feel if you found out your partner had betrayed your trust like that? Even if her boyfriend really has changed, is that enough? What would you do in her shoes?
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