He Finally Told His Fiancée To Stop Calling Him By Her Late Husband’s Name, But She Claimed It Was An Accident And Admitted That She’ll Always Love Her Late Husband
This man is 34-years-old, and his fiancée, named Mon, is 31. They’ve been in a relationship for about four years, and he popped the big question about one year ago.
Right now, his fiancée is also four months pregnant with their very first baby, and he is over the moon about their future together.
“She is a sweetheart; we get along very well, and I can see myself with her for a long time,” he said.
However, his fiancée has been married once before. Her previous marriage lasted six years, and her late husband was named Kyle.
Tragically, Kyle passed away in a car accident a few years ago. Then, following the loss, he and Mon met, and the rest of their relationship was history.
So, while his relationship with Mon has been wonderful, he has one main problem: apparently, his fiancée often accidentally calls him by her late husband’s name!
For instance, she will randomly ask him things such as, “How was your day, Kyle?” or even, “Can you grab that for me, Kyle?”
Now, he claimed to be almost positive that his fiancée had just done it by accident. She also always corrects herself after using the name “Kyle” and apologizes to him afterward.
“But it still makes me uncomfortable,” he admitted.
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“She even slipped and called me by his name [while hooking up].”
So, he eventually couldn’t take it anymore and decided to have a sit-down conversation with his fiancée. First, he told Mon that the whole name mix-up made him super uncomfortable. Then, he asked that she just stop calling him “Kyle” altogether.
At that point, his fiancée actually burst into tears and quickly apologized. She also revealed that she still loves her late husband and always will.
“I don’t know why, but that really made me unhappy,” he vented.
Following their discussion, it appeared that his fiancée also told her sister what had happened because he then received an angry text from her sister that night– accusing him of being rude and a jerk to his fiancée.
So now, he isn’t sure if finally telling his fiancée to stop mistakenly calling him by her late husband’s name was really unreasonable or not.
Can you understand why the frequent mistake is really hurtful to him? Does it matter whether the name mix-up is accidental or not? Would you have confronted your fiancée in this situation?
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