She Got Engaged To Her Sister’s Best Guy Friend, And Her Sister Freaked Out And Believes That She Stole Him
This 21-year-old woman has an older sister, who is 23, and according to her, her sister is a “pick me” who likes to act like “one of the guys.” So, her sister has always had strong opinions about her relationships and her overall life.
Apparently, her sister used to constantly criticize her for dressing up and wearing makeup. So, she always tried her best to avoid her sister.
Well, that was until she actually started getting pursued by one of her sister’s guy friends, James, who was pretty interested in her.
After a while, she wound up caving, too, and they went out on a date together.
Now, she thinks James is a sweetheart and a total gentleman. The only problem with their relationship is really her sister overstepping her boundaries.
For instance, her sister has recently begun “crashing” her date nights with James and showing up at her apartment very late at night. Her sister has even gone so far as to post “get ready with me” videos on social media while talking about how she “stole” James– her sister’s best friend.
“James still hangs out with my sister and his friends, who are close to her,” she clarified.
Nonetheless, her sister kept acting jealous, and it only got worse after James actually proposed and they got engaged.
To be clear, she and James actually don’t plan on tying the knot anytime soon. Instead, he bought her an engagement ring as if it were a promise ring.
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Regardless, her sister wound up freaking out after finding out about the engagement.
“My sister spammed me, saying I shouldn’t date or marry James and that I’m a [jerk] for taking James from her,” she revealed.
Her fiancé found out about what her sister was doing, too, and afterward, James actually cut contact with her sister. Then, most of James’ friends cut her sister off as well.
It’s important to note that she actually wasn’t the one who told James about her sister’s behavior. Nonetheless, he found out from a friend and no longer wanted to be around her sister anymore.
On top of that, he actually didn’t want her near her sister and asked her to get a restraining order. She even agreed to that, too.
Once her parents learned about the whole situation, though, they just accused her of overreacting. They think that family is more important at the end of the day.
“But I told them their opinion on the matter isn’t important,” she vented.
Still, with so much tension in her family now due to her relationship, she’s been left wondering if she could have handled the situation better.
Does it sound like her sister really is jealous? Should she have to put up with her sister’s behavior or not? How would you have handled this situation if you were in her shoes?
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