She Moved Out Of Her House And Is Telling Her Husband She’ll Come Back When His Daughter Leaves
When this woman was 32-year-old, she got married to her 47-year-old husband. Her husband has a daughter named Trudi, who was 22 when they got married, and now Trudi is 36.
As for her, she has two children of her own who are currently out of the house and attending college.
From the beginning, Trudi despised her, and that was alright. She knew Trudi was an adult with a mom of her own.
Speaking of Trudi’s mom, her husband and Trudi’s mom had been divorced for six years when she came along. But things with Trudi have not improved at all over the years.
“We live in a city with lots of tourism, so it was an easy decision to keep my apartment and do short-term rentals when my kids and I moved in with my husband,” she explained.
“We also use it for out-of-town guests. Trudi and her husband ran into some financial problems last year. Trudi and her family of four moved in with us. We agreed that after the holidays, I would stop taking reservations for my apartment, and they could move in there.”
“They would sign a lease, and we would “rent” it to them without collecting rent so they could build up rental history and money.”
It was last October that Trudi and her family moved in, and their living situation quickly turned into an absolute nightmare.
Trudi does not help around the house at all, and Trudi’s kids don’t either. As for Trudi’s husband, he’s constantly working to support their family, and when he gets home from work, he’s wiped out.
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Despite that, Trudi’s husband is more of a help around the home than Trudi is, which is sad. Trudi and her kids litter their house with dirty laundry and dishes, and their house is a wreck because of this.
She has tried to talk to Trudi, Trudi’s kids, and even her own husband with no luck. Trudi’s husband is the only person making any kind of effort to keep the house clean.
Trudi snapped at her that since she’s living in her dad’s home, she doesn’t have the right to tell her what to do. Unfortunately, her husband didn’t do anything about this or pick her side.
After being met with so much rudeness, she made the choice to move out and back into her own apartment.
She told Trudi that she does not want her using and abusing her apartment the way she is using and abusing her husband’s house.
“They are all mad at me for leaving and changing the plan,” she said. “She actually threatened to sue me since they have a signed lease.”
“I told her to go ahead since I could prove that I never got the agreed-upon deposit or first and last month’s rent (which we were going to “cover” to help them start over).”
It’s been a week since she moved back into her own place, and it’s amazing. There is no mess, no noise, and her commute to work is great.
Her husband has slept over a couple of nights so far, and he really wants her to come home and give her apartment to Trudi as they planned.
She mentioned to her husband that she would be open to this so long as she returned to the house and found it in better condition than when she left.
When she walked through the front door of her husband’s home to check what the condition was, she was appalled.
The house was smelly and gross. If anything, it was worse than when she had moved out. Trudi caught her looking about with a repulsed look on her face, and Trudi claimed it was not her fault everything was a wreck.
Trudi said since she and her family did not have a space of her own to live in, that’s the reason for the mess.
“I turned around and went back to my place,” she continued. “I offered to let my husband move in with me if he wants them to have their own space. He won’t because he is retired and likes where he is.”
“So, like I said, they are all mad at me. My husband, Trudi, [and] her kids. Trudi’s husband is the only one who understands my position. I will no longer agree to let them in my apartment [and] I will also only move back once they leave.”
What advice do you have for her?
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