She’s Feeling Suspicious That Her Husband Deployed, Then Hid His Married Status On Social Media
This 24-year-old woman got married to her 25-year-old husband two years ago, and they have a 1-year-old child together.
Her husband is in the military, and a couple of months back, he deployed to a different state than where they live, though he is still in the United States.
Yesterday night, she was poking around on social media and ended up going on her husband’s profile.
She was shocked to discover that her husband hid his married status, which used to say he was married to her.
That piece of key information was no longer visible to anyone, and that really bothered her that he would do such a thing.
She immediately sent her husband a message asking for his login information so she could get into his social media profile. She told him there was something she needed to look into.
“He gave me incorrect passwords, and [the] total time for me to log in took 20-30 minutes, and he said it kept giving him errors,” she explained.
“This made me very suspicious. I finally log in and click ‘edit profile.’ He didn’t change his relationship status; he just made his relationship status private to ‘only me.’”
She then gained access to his activity log, and she could clearly see that her husband hid his married status just five days after he ended up deploying.
Fabio – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Every other part of her husband’s social media profile is public except the fact that he is married to her.
She asked her husband why he didn’t tell her that he did this, and he claimed that he forgot he made the change in the first place.
“He cheated on me when we were dating, and I truly believe he changed and won’t do it again, hence why I married and had a child with him,” she said.
“Now, I’m questioning everything. I feel so stupid now for forgiving and trusting him again. Is this a clear sign that he’s still unfaithful?”
“Should I just cut my losses? I truly don’t know if it’s my trauma making me feel this way or if this is just [a] blaring red flag right in front of my eyes.”
What advice do you have for her?
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