Her Dad Told Her To Break Up With Her Boyfriend Because Her Stepsister Has A Crush On Him
This 16-year-old girl lives with her mother, who is 37, and stepfather, Diego, who is also 37. Her biological father had an affair when she was 9-years-old, and not long after her parents’ divorce, her father married her stepmother, Rosa, 42. Rosa had a daughter named Luciana, 16, from a previous relationship.
At the beginning of her father’s new marriage, she lived with him, Rosa, and Luciana, but it was intolerable.
Her father and stepmother favored Luciana over her, and it felt incredibly unfair. They always took Luciana’s side if they argued.
So, she eventually moved in with her mother, with whom she thankfully has a healthier and more stable relationship.
She didn’t move in with her mother initially because her mother was emotionally struggling from being cheated on and the divorce.
Plus, her grandfather died around this time, so her mother was deeply grieving. Over time, her mother healed and asked her to live at her house full-time, and she happily accepted.
Later, her mother married Diego, whom her mother dated in high school. Four years ago, her mother gave birth to her half-brother, Benjamin.
After she moved in with her mother, she stopped communicating with her father. Whenever she saw him, it was without her consenting to it.
She has a stronger bond with Diego, who she believes is the kindest man she’s ever known. Unfortunately, her father is a jerk.
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For more than 10 months, she has been in a relationship with her boyfriend, Noel, 16. Dating him has been wonderful, and he’s the nicest, most hilarious boy she’s ever met.
While she and Noel display public affection at school by hugging each other, they don’t kiss a lot when other people are around.
Even though she and Luciana attend the same school and are the same age, they don’t have any classes together.
During recess, she and Noel hang out with their friends in the classroom and play card games. She doesn’t know what Luciana does and wouldn’t be surprised if she wandered the halls during recess.
They’re on summer vacation in the country she lives in, so she’s had a two-month break from school.
She had to work recently, and afterward, she stopped by her father’s house to pick up something before heading back to her mother’s house.
It was already late, and since she felt unsafe walking home, she called Noel to see if he could give her a ride to her mother’s house.
A few minutes later, he arrived at her father’s house, and when she saw him, she kissed him on the lips before leaving in Noel’s father’s vehicle.
Nothing about this was out of the ordinary, but the following day, her father asked if she could come over for a chat.
Once she got to her father’s house, he and Luciana were sitting on the sofa, and he requested that she sit down.
“I asked what was going on, and my dad started to talk about how disrespectful it was to date my stepsister’s crush, much more to bring him here,” she said.
Immediately, she interrupted her father and explained that she and Noel had been in a relationship for nearly a year.
She pointed out that Noel had no idea who Luciana was in the first place, which hurt Luciana’s feelings.
“She told me to shut up, but I replied that it was the truth. My dad suggested I should break up with him, but I told him to shut up and that I wasn’t going to break up with my boyfriend because my delusional stepsister has a crush on a guy she doesn’t even know,” she explained.
During the argument, she name-called Luciana for attempting to tear her and Noel apart. Then, she told her to find another boy who didn’t already have a girlfriend.
“Yeah, I know that Noel and I are teenagers, and it’s hard for us to actually last,” she shared.
Even though her father and Luciana are demanding that she dump Noel, she refuses to do so. Understandably, she doesn’t think it’s fair because she’s in a happy relationship, and Luciana could move on to a boy who’s single.
What advice would you give her?
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