Here Are 10 Things To Do Right After You Get Engaged To Savor Every Moment And Set Yourself Up For A Stress-Free Wedding Planning Journey
If you just said “Yes!” to the love of your life, your head is probably spinning with a mix of excitement and thoughts about what to do now.
Getting engaged is obviously a massive milestone, and it can be tempting to dive headfirst into wedding planning– especially if loved ones immediately start asking you when you plan to tie the knot.
However, there are a few key things to consider first that will save your sanity while also making the planning process easier.
This list is not about rushing you through this super special time. Rather, it’s about ensuring you savor every moment and set yourself up for a stress-free journey to the altar.
1. Celebrate The Moment
Before you jump into planning mode, take some time to actually bask in the glow of your engagement!
This could mean a romantic dinner, a casual night in, or even a small gathering with close friends and family.
Choose whatever fits your vibe more, and don’t feel guilty about going small if that’s what you want. The key is just to celebrate this new chapter in a way that feels right for both of you.
2. Announce To Family And Close Friends
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We all love the proposal selfies and engagement ring close-up shots. But before broadcasting your news on social media, make sure to tell your closest loved ones personally.
A phone call, video chat, or even an in-person visit can make them feel really special and included in your next chapter.
3. Insure Your Engagement Ring
Now, this practical step is often overlooked– and it’s really a shame. You never know what might happen to your engagement ring, and this thought can be daunting, especially if your partner spent a pretty penny on it.
So, you should try to get your ring insured as soon as possible in order to get some peace of mind. Be sure to look into options that cover loss, theft, and damage.
4. Dream Up Your Wedding
You can also begin envisioning your big day. But this absolutely doesn’t mean you have to start deciding on every detail right away!
Instead, starting a slow conversation with your partner can be a good thing. You both can start to get on the same page about your wedding’s ideal season, location, and size to help guide your future planning.
5. Set A Preliminary Budget
Money talk isn’t fun, but it’s best to discuss finances early on in order to avoid any unnecessary stress later down the line.
Have an honest chat with your partner and try to determine a budget that feels comfortable for you both. Also, don’t forget to take into account any contributions from family members!
6. Draft A Guest List
There’s no need to nail down the final version of your guest list right away. Still, drafting an initial guest list can give you a rough idea of your wedding’s scale.
This will definitely be a work in progress, but it’s always great to have a starting point.
7. Think About Dates
Once figuring out what season you want to tie the knot in, you can start picking out a few potential dates. Don’t forget to consider work schedules, holidays, and any other upcoming family events when making your choice.
At the end of the day, flexibility is key here– especially if you have your eye set on a single “dream” venue.
8. Browse Venues
After getting engaged, you and your partner can take your time looking at venues online to get an idea of what appeals to you. Are you going for urban, rustic, or something in between?
Either way, it’s great to get some venue tours scheduled because some will book up quite far in advance.
9. Take Care Of Yourself
Perhaps most importantly, don’t forget to take care of yourself amidst the excitement. Eat well, get enough rest, and maybe even treat yourself to a spa day or a weekend getaway to unwind and relax with your partner. Remember, you will only be fiancés once.
10. Embrace Every Step Along The Way
Last but not least, keep in mind that wedding planning is a long journey– not a race. That’s why it’s crucial to embrace and enjoy every step of the process.
Before you know it, time will fly by, and you want to have fond memories of planning with your partner. So, try to soak up the little moments whenever you can.
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