Chip Chick
Then, a mutual friend she shares with her husband said she noticed her husband in a car with a woman she didn’t know, and it appeared they were touching or holding hands.
Eventually, she worked up the courage to confront him and pleaded with him to speak to her with honesty.
At first, he didn’t want to discuss anything with her, but after she screamed and sobbed hard enough to throw up all over the place, he relented.
He told her he was leaving her, but he helped her get all cleaned up first before sitting down to talk. She did ask him if he was cheating on her, and he only stated he was talking to another woman, and not the same woman he was seen in a car with; this is a different woman he met at work a month ago.
“I asked him how could he and said I gave him permission, and he didn’t do anything besides unloading his problems and our situation with her,” she explained.
“But he played it like he was having a full affair so I could feel what he felt, especially because, according to him, I neglected him and made it obvious I was cheating on him. He said he was suffering, and I was almost rubbing it in his face. I told him I wasn’t doing it on purpose, and he said this was even worse because I didn’t care at all.”
“He said that everything I did after confessing meant nothing and just made him think I am selfish, self-centered, and lack any sort of self-respect. I asked him if we could work on myself and our marriage, but he said we can have counseling to sort ourselves out, but the marriage is over. He said he wishes no ill on me and decided to cut his charade because he could no longer bear to see the woman he once loved suffer like that. But he said I am no longer that woman. I started sobbing again, and he held me, but he kept saying no when I asked him [if] we [can] work this out.”
Her husband informed her that he’s moving out of their home, and already found a new spot to live in.
She then questioned him about whether or not he’s moving in with this new woman he met, and he said he’s not, but he is moving close by to her.
She then asked her husband how he could pick a woman he doesn’t even know (as he only met her a month ago) over his wife of five long years.
Her husband pointed out to her that the wife he knew and loved no longer exists, and so he does have to pick between two strangers: her and this new woman.
