Chip Chick
“This raised a huge red flag for me,” she said. “What was he hiding? So I know this was really weird, but in the heat of the moment (I can be very impulsive due to ADHD), I admitted I had looked up his phone number to find his socials – and found out I was blocked.”
“Not surprisingly, I think he was embarrassed and creeped out. He called me the next day (I guess he can pick up the phone) to basically tell me he understood why I did it as a woman, but he’s not used to that; everything was moving too fast, and we should go our separate ways.”
“Told me maybe we can text when I move there, but I think he was just trying to be nice from the tone of it. I was mortified, to say the least. I’m feeling a lot of shame and embarrassment for this and am really sad that my impulsive behavior may have jeopardized our connection.”
She’s left wondering if there is anything she can do to somehow save things with him or if it’s wise for her to keep reaching out to him at all.
What advice do you have for her?
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