Chip Chick
When she drove to the apartment, she assumed her boyfriend would be organizing his friend’s belongings, throwing items away, and packing items away, but she was surprised that he wasn’t cleaning the apartment.
“Instead, he was going through her things and reading her journals (apparently, she’s been journaling since she was small). He even began trashing her apartment to find her laptop’s password. He claims she had trouble remembering stuff like that, so she would write them down and stash them around the apartment in little hiding places,” she explained.
Her boyfriend was certain that his late friend had hidden her laptop password in the apartment and was determined to find it. Later, he requested that she call Geek Squad at Best Buy to find out if they could unlock his late friend’s computer, and she lost it.
She pleaded with him to calm down for a minute and quit trying to get into his friend’s laptop, adding that he was insane.
“He blew up at me and started yelling at me and screaming about how all this was my fault and how none of this would have happened if I just let them keep hanging out. He read her journals, and he knows she stopped talking to him because he told her I was feeling insecure,” she shared.
As her boyfriend yelled at her, he said that he saw a journal entry when his late friend said she’d asked him to have dinner not long after she’d received her cancer diagnosis because she wanted to break the news to him.
In his anger, he backed her into a corner of the apartment and questioned whether she recalled throwing a tantrum about his late friend asking him to dinner and pleading for him to turn her down.
At the time, he told his friend he couldn’t go to dinner because his girlfriend felt uneasy about them spending time together. His friend never contacted him again because she assumed his girlfriend didn’t want them to be friends anymore.
Because of that, he never knew she’d been diagnosed with cancer until after her death. Leading up to her passing, his late friend told their friend group not to inform him of her diagnosis, and they complied with her request to keep the information a secret.
He continued, pointing out that since he complied with her request to distance himself from his friend, he couldn’t support his late friend before she passed away with no one around her.
Suddenly, her boyfriend kicked her out of his friend’s apartment and ordered her never to come back. He added that he didn’t want her in his friend’s place and needed distance.
