Her Husband Spent $160,000 On Baseball Cards, Meanwhile He’s Been Yelling At Her For Her Spending Habits
I’ve always felt so sorry for people who become victims of fraud or financial abuse due to their partner or spouse’s reckless actions.
One woman is trying desperately to get some of her money back after her irresponsible husband spend it on baseball cards, which he sees as an investment.
For the last three years, she’s struggled to find common ground on money issues with her husband.
He wouldn’t give her access to look at their joint bank account or joint credit card bills online for a long time. He would also get unnecessarily mad at her anytime she spent money on things she wanted, like meal plans or salon trips.
“I would get yelled at for my ‘disrespectful spending’ and my financial goals not aligning with his, so he’d say,” she said.
Whenever she could get eyes on their joint account or credit card information, she’d notice mysterious $2,000 to $4,000 charges. Her husband immediately became defensive whenever she questioned them, telling her they were for family expenses and grocery trips.
Two months ago, her husband had a scary outburst when she questioned why there was another $4,000 taken out of their joint account.
He told her she “ruins everything,” told her her questioning was the reason why her past relationships failed, etc.
“This outburst made me realize there was more going on,” she said.
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“After lots of back and forth, digging [around], and finally getting him to give me access to his credit card statements, I added up $160,000 in three years that he spent.”
“I already realize the financial abuse that has taken place on many levels, and there is so much I’m not including.”
She later found out her husband had spent $160,000 on baseball cards he kept all over the house, which he claimed were investments.
She decided to stay married to him since she wasn’t prepared for a divorce but began transferring money from their joint bank account into her personal account monthly.
She aims to get back at least $80,000, half the money her husband spent without her permission.
Her husband’s been furious about this and is doing everything he can to stop her from getting her money back, including emptying out their joint account before she can successfully transfer any funds.
At this point, she’s unsure what to do and wonders how to proceed.
What would you do if you found out your husband did this?
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