Katharina Buczek
This 32-year-old woman and her husband, who is 36, have been married for 10 years now. But, she recently started noticing that her husband was acting “suspicious,” and it began to really put her on edge.
For instance, her husband began staying out late sometimes and wouldn’t be able to give her a reasonable explanation as to why. He also started acting very protective over his phone, which he hadn’t done in the past.
She tried to have an open discussion about her worries, too. But, all her husband did was brush off her concerns and say she was just paranoid. Rather than ease her worries, though, this only made her feel even more concerned.
“So I decided to take matters into my own hands and secretly investigate,” she recalled.
More specifically, she actually went out and hired a private investigator to look into her husband, and before long, her worst fear was confirmed. She found out that her husband was, in fact, having an affair, and she was left heartbroken.
She wound up confronting her husband with the evidence as well. However, her husband tried to use the fact that she hired a private investigator against her.
He actually accused her of betraying his privacy and violating the trust they were supposed to have in their marriage.
“And while I acted out of desperation to save our marriage, I can’t shake the guilt of invading his privacy,” she admitted.
So, ever since confronting her husband, she’s been feeling torn and like she was in a “moral dilemma.”
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