Her Fiancé Dumped Her For Someone Else Four Months Before Their Wedding, Then Got Married To Another Girl After Only Knowing Her For Three Months

halayalex - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
halayalex - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

This 33-year-old woman spent an entire decade with her 33-year-old fiancé, and they were engaged for half their time together.

Her fiancé promised her the world on a silver platter, and he was everything to her. She is a doctor, and she sacrificed going the ophthalmology route for him.

He accepted a job offer in Europe, and she moved to be with him and went down a different path in her career in order to prioritize her relationship.

“After preparing for our wedding and booking everything, 4 months prior to the wedding, I caught him going out with another girl from his work,” she explained.

“It turned out that he was going out with her for quite some time, and I didn’t know. I went crazy, and after talking to him and even forgiving him, he broke up with me, saying that I didn’t achieve enough goals to be with him, that I was always depressed, and that the new girl at least ‘smiled’ more.”

Adding to the pain he caused, her fiancé’s mom didn’t consider her son a cheater. Her fiancé’s mom said she should have been “good enough” because then he wouldn’t have picked another girl over her.

She was incredibly close to her fiancé’s family too; she not only lost him from her life but all of his loved ones as well.

A year later, the girl her fiancé cheated on her with and left her for dumped him. He then went on to meet another 27-year-old girl and quickly tied the knot with her.

“[He] MARRIED her within three months, they [had] the biggest wedding (bigger than our planned wedding). [He] buys her the most expensive clothes (he never did that for me), traveled to so many places together, and now I learned she’s pregnant with his child,” she said.

halayalex – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

“And oh, two years into their marriage, she still has no job and sits around at home all day. We always talked about what our children would be like and even picked out names for them. We dreamed of our future together as husband and wife, and now this woman he married stole everything away from me and is now pregnant.”

“I’m back in ophthalmology school, but I still cannot get over this, how I wasted all my twenties and early 30s for a man who dumped me on the phone after years of engagement and family relationships. I’m still in the worst pain possible and am in more pain learning that she’s pregnant. How can I tolerate all of this happening to me, I’m a ruined person because of him. How do I move on from this?”

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