Her Husband Came Out To Her After She Found All His Steamy Texts To A Guy He Planned To Hook Up With

Five years ago, this 26-year-old woman met her 29-year-old husband, and six months ago, they had their wedding. A year and a half ago, they also welcomed their first child into the world.
Now, back when she first began dating her husband, she was open with him about her past experiences with women.
She then asked him if he had ever done anything with guys, and he said he hadn’t. That was that, and the topic never came up again in all the years that they have been together.
Over the weekend, she and her husband took a vacation with their family and in one moment during their trip, her husband struck up a conversation with a guy he knew from a city he used to live in before she met him.
Her husband mentioned wanting to go for a walk around the property where they were staying, and she said that was fine, as she had to put their baby to bed.
While her husband was on his walk, he planned to hook up with the other guy at his hotel, but he ended up not following through with his plan.
After they returned home from their trip, a couple of days later, her husband accidentally left his phone at home before he heading off to work.
She found her husband’s phone and went to text his boss when she saw much more than she bargained for.
“The dirty text, pictures…even planning to meet [with the guy from vacation] the first week of July, which is my birthday weekend,” she explained.

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“When I brought it up to him, he begged for forgiveness, but I was so shocked I couldn’t breathe. He told me that this is a part of him that he’s regressed for a long time, and he thought it was gone until he was back in the city where he had those experiences.”
“He told me that we could work on things, but…I can’t look at him and see the man I love anymore. He was cheated on in his last relationship, and he’s always been very adamant about the fact that if I ever cheated on him that I would be kicked out (understandably).”
So, talk about a twist. Anyway, she thinks she has two different options for what she can do next. The first option is to remain with her husband, even though how she perceives him has been utterly shattered.
Her second option is to leave now. Her mom got cheated on by her dad while she was a kid, and she always promised she wouldn’t let herself end up in the same situation.
If she does end her marriage, she can just focus on herself and not on her husband’s needs or desires, and she can make herself the priority.
“Can we make this work even though I personally feel like the past 5 years have been a lie?” she wondered.
“Will I ever be able to be pregnant by him again and feel the same love I did the first time? Will I be able to raise a family now, knowing that there is a potential for this again?”
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