His Ex Showed Up At His Front Door Asking Him To Raise The Child She Had With Her Affair Partner
This 30-year-old guy spent five years dating his 27-year-old girlfriend named Jane, who then sadly cheated on him.
They started out as friends in their childhood before they grew up and started dating. The relationship he had with Jane was amazing, and he never imagined she could be unfaithful.
But last year, a girl named Sam contacted him through social media, saying she had proof that Jane was cheating on him.
He didn’t know Sam, but she sent him evidence of Jane sending steamy messages to a guy named Kevin.
In those messages, he saw that Jane admitted to Kevin that she was pregnant, and he was blindsided by that.
He and Jane were discussing having a baby together before he found out about her cheating on him.
He was furious and sad all at once, and Sam mentioned she was telling him the truth so Jane couldn’t try to convince him that he was the father of her baby when he clearly wasn’t.
He said thank you to Sam for doing him this favor, saved all of the evidence, and packed up Jane’s belongings.
While he was doing this, Jane was out visiting her mom, but when she returned home later on, she seemed super excited.
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“I had to put on a fake smile when she delivered the news that she was pregnant and hugged me,” he explained.
“I told her we should go out to celebrate, and she agreed, not knowing of what I have in store for her. I ended up driving her back to her mother’s place as she was confused as to why we were there; I told her that she could drop the act already and told her that I know about the cheating.”
“She looked like a deer in headlights if I’m describing correctly. Of course, she tried to deny it until I showed all the screenshots to her that I got from Sam. Jane ended up breaking down and confessing that the cheating was, in fact, true. I asked how long was the cheating going on, and Jane was a bit hysterical before telling me that she was seeing Kevin behind my back for the last 2 years.”
He dumped Jane, and she started sobbing hysterically as he took all of her things out of the trunk of his car.
She wouldn’t get out of his car and pleaded with him to give her a second chance. She even promised to terminate her pregnancy if he just said yes to staying together, which really upset him.
He eventually got Jane’s mom involved to remove her from his car, and he drove off without looking in the rearview mirror.
When he got back to his house, he couldn’t help but break down. For the next several months, he had trouble sleeping and eating; he was so distraught.
Since it’s been close to a year that he dumped Jane, he’s been healing, but it still hurts him to this day.
Two weeks ago, he was shocked when Jane sent him a message asking if they could get back together, and this was the first time he heard from her in a year. He declined to reconcile and then blocked Jane.
However, a couple of days ago, Jane showed up at his front door looking like a hot mess. He could see Jane on his doorbell camera, and he didn’t let her inside his house, but he asked her through the camera what she wanted.
Jane informed him that right after she had her baby, Kevin ghosted her and she has no idea where he is.
He reminded Jane that’s her issue, not his, and Kevin was the guy she picked over him in the end. Jane begged him to help her, and she also revealed that her parents kicked her out of their house.
“Jane said that cheating on me was her biggest mistake and that she doesn’t like being a single mom and taking care of a kid on her own,” he said.
Jane wanted to know if he would be up for accepting her child and raising the baby as his own, which infuriated him. He told Jane to leave and that any love he had for her died when he discovered her infidelity.
Jane cried but ended up walking away. Ever since then, Jane’s friends have been coming at him on social media for refusing to step up and be a dad to her kid.
“They also said that even though she made a mistake, she was there for me, so it would be horrible of me not to be there for her and the kid,” he continued.
“What should I do regarding this matter? I feel bad that she was there for me growing up, but I can’t forgive her for what she did.”
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