She Snapped And Told Her Husband She No Longer Finds Him Attractive Now That He’s Super Fit
Five years ago, this 25-year-old woman met her 28-year-old husband, and he used to be quite chubby.
He also was constantly out of breath. She always loved hiking, and he would come with her but struggle to keep up.
A little over two years ago, her husband said he wanted to get fit and change his life. She was incredibly supportive of this, and her husband then joined a gym and started eating in a healthy way.
Her husband has gone all in and has put on an amazing amount of muscle. He looks totally different from how he did back when they first met.
Her husband is incredibly confident since undergoing this change in his life, and he’s also happier.
“I love him, and I want him to be happy no matter what. But I simply no longer find him attractive,” she explained.
“He has a 6 pack, which I find really unattractive. I dislike how hard he is to cuddle now. I hate the veins in his arms. I hate how swollen his chest looks. I’ve never been interested in muscular men, and I just feel a bit of disgust when I look at him now.”
She hasn’t told her husband about how her attraction has changed because she doesn’t want to get in the way of him living his best version of his life. She also doesn’t want to ruin his confidence or happiness.
She’s been good at hiding this from her husband, as he keeps thinking her attraction to him should increase.
Drobot Dean – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Her husband will ask her to touch his abs or his arms, fully anticipating she will fawn all over him for being like a Greek god. She’s been politely playing along in order not to tip her hand.
Yesterday evening, her husband mentioned that he beat his personal record at the gym that day with his bicep workout, and then he asked her to touch his bicep to see how strong he was.
She snapped and said no, so her husband wanted to know why. She finally told him the truth: that she no longer finds him attractive.
“We then had a huge fight, and I tried over and over to tell him that I can overlook his body because I want him to be happy and healthy, but I don’t want to feel him or pretend to find his gains attractive anymore,” she said.
“He got really upset and hasn’t talked to me since. How can I fix this? How can I continue letting him know how proud I am of his new confidence and fitness while also continuing to be attracted to him?”
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