Her Sister’s Demanding That She Dye Her Hair From Lilac To Brunette In Order To Be A Bridesmaid In Her Wedding
In the near future, this 33-year-old woman’s 28-year-old sister is tying the knot. She recently traveled out of town to help her sister shop for a wedding dress, which was a success.
Later on, she and her sister grabbed drinks to celebrate saying yes to the dress and while they were chatting, her sister brought up her lilac-colored hair.
Now, she frequently gets compliments her on her unique hair color when she’s out and about, and she thinks her sister was already annoyed that people were remarking about it while shopping for her dress.
Her sister then said she wants her to be a bridesmaid, but she needs her to dye her hair brunette in order to be allowed into the bridal party.
“My response was I worked really hard to achieve this color as it’s been my dream hair color for a very long time, and that I’m not dyeing it for one day, that it won’t hurt my feelings to not stand up there with her and her million friends,” she explained.
“Especially considering I’m making her wedding cake and was already planning on finishing the decorations the day of her wedding. I told her I’d have to scramble to finish her cake and get in for hair and makeup and that I’m happy just sitting it out and making sure her cake is perfect.”
Her sister snarled at her that since they’re sisters, she needs to be up there with her for her wedding day and that it’s not a big deal for her to dye her hair the color she wants it.
Her sister added that she loves the color of her hair, but she’s concerned that the spotlight will be on that instead of her.
She kindly reminded her sister that she’s not going to change her mind, but her sister thinks they have a year to keep talking about this.
Aleksei Zakharov – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Before the conversation came to a close, she suggested wearing a wig or doing her hair up into a bun so you can’t see the color of her hair very well if you’re looking directly at her.
She also said she could lighten her hair to a silvery platinum color since it won’t be hard for her to change it back to lilac after the wedding, but her sister didn’t like that either.
Her sister frowned at all of her compromises, and it’s since turned into a bigger issue with their mom getting involved.
Their mom insists that it’s not hard for her to change her hair, so she should dye it brunette to make her sister happy.
She’s not looking forward to talking about this for the next year until her sister’s big day, but it’s undoubtedly going to keep being a hot topic in their family.
Moving on from the hair color problem, she is making her sister a very lavish wedding cake with four tiers, and she expected her sister not to include her in the bridal party due to the amount of work that will be required.
On the morning of her sister’s wedding, she will need to stack all the layers on the cake and add all the floral decorations. She anticipated being able to focus on that task and nothing more. Admittedly, it’s too much for her to handle the cake, dye her hair, and hold a role in her sister’s wedding.
“There is absolutely nothing to discuss; I’m not dying my hair brown for a wedding. Therefore, I simply won’t be in my sister’s wedding,” she concluded.
She’s left wondering if it’s wrong of her not to allow herself to be guilt-tripped into going brunette for her sister’s wedding day.
What do you think?
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