She Lashed Out At Her Boyfriend And Said She Was Sick Of Him Constantly Insisting On Having A Baby Together When He Knows She Isn’t Sure About Having Children

This woman and her boyfriend have been dating for two years. But, even though she isn’t sure about the idea of having kids, her boyfriend is always insisting that they start a family together.
Apparently, he is constantly sending her videos and photos of babies to try and change her mind. He also says things like, “Kids are a symbol of our love,” which honestly just annoys the heck out of her.
“I’ve repeatedly stated my reasons for not having kids, such as being child-free is much easier,” she said.
“I’m not trying to shame women who want children. It’s just a matter of preference.”
Additionally, another reason is that she already has body image issues stemming from her past experiences of being bullied. Her boyfriend even knows about all of this, too.
“But I almost feel like he just ignores these reasons and has convinced himself that I want children.”
In fact, in the past, he has “desperately begged” her and claimed that she was the only woman he ever wanted to have a family with.
On top of that, he told her that if she didn’t hate children, there was no harm in having a baby.
“The harm is that I’m afraid I’ll end up being a terrible mother to an innocent child,” she vented.

BullRun – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
So, after her boyfriend wouldn’t let up, she’d finally just had enough one day and snapped. After getting super frustrated, she claimed she was tired of him insisting on having kids.
She also said that she was annoyed with him for refusing to understand her own perspective on the idea.
Nonetheless, while it might have felt good to put her foot down at that moment, she has now been left wondering if lashing out at her boyfriend was actually the right thing to do or not.
Can you understand why she might feel pressured and overwhelmed by her boyfriend’s constant insistence? Do you think their relationship will work out if her boyfriend is set on having children and she doesn’t want any? What do you suggest she does next?
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