He Called Off His Wedding After His Fiancée Wouldn’t Agree To Sign A Prenup And Said He Was Trying To Start Their Marriage With One Foot Out The Door
Prenuptial agreements may feel like a more modern trend, but in some societies, they’ve actually been around for thousands of years.
Despite their long history, though, prenups still yield a mixed reaction from soon-to-be spouses.
For some, these agreements represent a smart decision that protects both parties and their assets in the event of an unfortunate split. For others, the mere act of signing a prenup seems unromantic and pessimistic – symbolizing the demise of a marriage before it can even begin.
Right now, one man is currently battling his fiancée, who believes the latter. He popped the question about two months ago.
“And we have recently started to plan the wedding,” he said.
Amidst the preparations, he also mentioned how he wanted to draw up a prenup in order to protect both his premarital assets as well as the money he’d receive from his inheritance.
For some context, he comes from a wealthy family. So, when his parents pass away, he stands to receive a lofty inheritance in the “low-mid eight figures.”
However, when he tried to broach the topic with his fiancée, she downright refused to sign a prenup and became really defensive.
“I tried to explain that I wasn’t about to risk the generational wealth that my parents and my grandparents worked away for on a coin toss,” he revealed.
Anil – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Then, he doubled down – telling his fiancée that a prenup was “absolutely mandatory” in his eyes.
Well, his fiancée still would not budge. She also accused him of trying to begin their marriage with one foot already “out the door.”
“So I told her that until we came to an agreement on this, marriage was off the table, and I wasn’t changing my mind on this,” he vented.
Nonetheless, he can’t help but wonder if calling off their engagement because his fiancée wouldn’t agree to a prenup was really the right decision.
Do you think that prenups are important for protection in the event of a split or not? Even so, does it sound like he messed up by calling their marriage a “coin toss” when expressing his feelings? What can he do to fix it?
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