He Blocked A Girl After She Made Him Feel Like A Simp And Asked Him To Get Married On Paper So She Could Stay In The Country
Have you ever met and started dating someone who made you act like a “simp?” This pop culture buzzword refers to when an individual, usually a guy, lets a woman walk all over them in pursuit of a relationship.
Unfortunately, “simp” behavior isn’t often reciprocated, either, leaving guys feeling used and desperate.
One 28-year-old man fell into this trap last year after he met a 24-year-old girl at his local gym. After he worked out, he ran into her in the elevator, and she actually gave him a compliment.
That’s what pushed him to start talking to her in the first place, and things quickly went downhill.
At first, they just went out for coffee and began talking regularly before they went out on a couple of dates.
“But I feel like the whole thing was a mistake fueled by desperation and loneliness because I was acting like a stupid simp,” he recalled.
All of a sudden, he started financially providing for this girl, paying for her food, and driving her all over the place.
However, that wasn’t the worst of it. Rather, one day, she actually asked him if he’d be willing to marry her “on paper.” That way, she could stay in the country if she did not get a job.
“She came here as an au pair with a limited visa,” he explained.
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Initially, he actually said yes to the idea, too, under one condition – they made sure that she wouldn’t be entitled to any of his assets after a future divorce.
Well, even though this concern was reasonable, the girl just became furious at him and accused him of not trusting her.
“After that, and speaking to my therapist, I more or less checked out,” he said.
Still, he did have a small present – which he’d promised to buy the girl before their argument. Yet, when he tried to give it to her afterward, she refused to take the gift and said she was still angry that he didn’t trust her.
Then, about two hours later, she flipped on him again and told him to just bring the present to the gym for her.
“At that point, I was done with the games,” he vented.
So, he told the girl that they were over and blocked her number.
Since then, she has tried to reach out to him over the last couple of months. But he’s just continued to ignore her.
And now, he can’t help but wonder if cutting her off like that was justified given what happened or if it was a jerky move on his part.
Do you think it was time for this relationship to come to an end? What would you have done in this situation?
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