Her Fiancé Used An AI App To See What His Female Coworkers Look Like Without Clothes On
One day, this 23-year-old girl and her 25-year-old fiancé were chitchatting about a couple of things when her fiancé mentioned that he doesn’t believe in ethics.
He then admitted to her that he had used an AI app in order to see what his female coworkers look like without clothes on.
He insisted that since it was not real and nobody was hurt in any way, it wasn’t a big deal at all.
She was horrified and asked him when exactly he had done that. He replied that it was only a few months ago.
She questioned him about his motive, and he informed her that he did it out of curiosity and nothing more.
“Why his colleagues?” she wondered. “He’s in front of a computer; there’s a world wide web inside with millions of photos; why his acquaintances?”
“A random pic from the internet wouldn’t be interesting. It’s like when you’re a kid, and you get a peek under a girl’s skirt. That’s the feeling,” he said.
She revealed to her fiancé that she was uneasy and said if the tables were turned, would he have a problem?
Apparently, her fiancé still failed to see why this was so upsetting. Even if she felt super attracted to someone, she would never put their photos into an AI app to see what’s potentially underneath their clothing.
New Africa – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
She believes that’s disgusting and violating, as well as toeing the line of cheating on her fiancé.
“In short, this turned into a conflict,” she added. “Besides my not-too-comprehensive thoughts of “Why would he be thinking of these other girls that are in his life when there’s me? Am I not enough? Am I not too attractive?” there’s a question of this boundary that was obviously not set because I didn’t even consider thinking of it to set it, a question of ethics and morality.”
The argument came to an end when they both accepted that they would not be able to see eye to eye on the situation at hand.
She walked away feeling unhappy, as she still feels it’s gross. This is honestly the biggest mistake her fiancé has ever made, and while she can’t manage to forgive him, she’s desperately trying to move ahead.
Later on, they did discuss setting certain boundaries, and it’s been a month since that conversation. While her relationship has improved in some ways, she can’t get over those photos.
Every single time she gets upset with him, her mind races back to what he did. She’s left wondering if there’s another way to view this.
What do you think?
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