Bre Avery Zacharski
Both Of Her Daughters Got Engaged
A mom of 2 daughters (her 22-year-old biological daughter and 23-year-old stepdaughter) says that things have gone pretty south since they both got engaged.
The Girls Grew Up Together
She started out by explaining that her stepdaughter and bio daughter grew up with one another, and several years ago, her husband (their dad) passed.
Her Stepdaughter Is Super Competitive With Her Bio Daughter
Her stepdaughter is a very competitive person, and she has perpetually been competing against her bio daughter for better grades or being the first one to buy a car or receive an engagement ring.
Her Stepdaughter Wants To Always Be The First One To Do Something
Her stepdaughter wants to be the first to do everything or get one over on her daughter, but her daughter really doesn’t mind or play into this at all, given that she’s very agreeable.
Everything Is A Competition
This mom frequently feels like she needs to confront her stepdaughter over making her bio daughter seem like everything is a competition.
The Girls Got Engaged A Few Months Apart
Her stepdaughter probably felt like she got one over on her bio daughter when she got engaged 8 months ago, but then her daughter got engaged as well 2 months ago.
When Her Daughter Picked A Wedding Date, Her Stepdaughter Got Upset
Recently, her daughter picked a date for her wedding, and her stepdaughter was upset by this because she had not picked a date or started planning for her own wedding at all.
Her Stepdaughter Tried To Get Married First
Although her stepdaughter tried to find a place where she could have her wedding before her daughter, that didn’t work out.
Her Stepdaughter Attempted To Get Her Daughter To Postpone Her Wedding
So, her stepdaughter moved to another plan: trying to get her daughter to basically postpone her wedding, which she obviously can’t do because everything is already locked in.
Her Daughter’s Wedding Is This Month
Her daughter is going to be having her wedding at the end of this month, and she picked out a wedding dress.
She Gave Her Daughter $700 For Her Wedding Dress
This mom generously spent $700 on her daughter’s wedding dress because she wanted to give that to her as a gift.
Her Stepdaughter Freaked Out
When her stepdaughter found out that her daughter got her wedding dress, she absolutely lost it.
Her Stepdaughter Ghosted Her
“My stepdaughter got mad and had a meltdown and ghosted us for a week, then came to visit while my daughter was staying with me, acting calm and nice,” this mom said.
Her Stepdaughter Said She Went To The Bathroom
“She excused herself to the bathroom when we had dinner then came back and said her fiancé was outside and she needed to leave. It was strange that she left in a hurry.”
Her Daughter Discovered Her Wedding Dress Cut Up
“My daughter entered her room and found her wedding dress cut to pieces from below to the waist.”
She Knew Her Stepdaughter Did The Damage
“We were in dismay; we figured it was my stepdaughter who did this since she couldn’t do anything about the fact my daughter was getting married before her.”
Her Daughter Broke Down
Her daughter had a breakdown over her wedding dress while she went to confront her stepdaughter.
Her Stepdaughter Said She Didn’t Destroy The Dress
Her stepdaughter insisted that she did not ruin the dress, but this mom gave her a bill to pay for what she destroyed and said she needed to fork over money to buy a brand-new dress.
She Threatened To Take Her Stepdaughter To Court
This mom even threatened to take her stepdaughter to court if she didn’t pay up, and then her stepdaughter owned up to ruining the dress.
Her Stepdaughter Can’t Afford To Pay For A New Wedding Dress
Her stepdaughter tried to blame her behavior on mental problems before saying she can’t afford to pay $700 for a new dress.
Her Stepdaughter Asked For Her Daughter To Call Off Her Wedding
Her stepdaughter asked if she could be on a payment plan or have her daughter call off her wedding, but this mom is not budging.
How would you handle this?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
