His Girlfriend Kissed Her Baby Daddy Just A Few Days Ago, So He Doesn’t Want Her Going Inside The Guy’s House Anymore
This 25-year-old guy and his girlfriend, who’s 26, have been dating for around five months now, and she has a child from a previous relationship.
So, after he and his girlfriend got into an argument a few days ago, he found out that she actually went over to her “baby daddy’s” house and hung out with the guy while her kid was there. Then, she wound up cheating on him – kissing her ex.
Once he found out about the infidelity, he immediately confronted his girlfriend. She was apparently very apologetic, too, which is why he decided to take her back.
“When we reconciled, I told her that stricter boundaries needed to be set in her co-parenting relationship because my trust in her had been damaged,” he recalled.
“She agreed and said she would ‘prove it’ to me.”
Well, only a couple of days later, it just so happened to be his girlfriend’s child’s birthday. At first, they all just celebrated at her home.
However, his girlfriend’s mom wound up ticking her off, and after she was put into a bad mood, she claimed that she wanted to hang out alone with her child the next day.
To his surprise, though, his girlfriend didn’t actually end up spending any one-on-one time with her kid. Instead, she eventually told him that she was going to drop her child off at her ex’s home.
Given that she cheated on him with her ex not that long ago, this made him pretty worried, too.
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He asked if she planned to stay with her ex and their child, and he admitted that he was uncomfortable with the idea of her hanging out with her ex right now.
His girlfriend wasn’t exactly understanding of his concerns, either, and just responded, “Bro, bye!” before saying that she wasn’t going to “do him dirty” or hurt him again.
On the other hand, he refused to take that risk and told his girlfriend, “Absolutely not.”
“I trusted you once, and this situation is still fresh. I’d really appreciate it if you didn’t stay there,” he explained to her.
Unfortunately, his girlfriend ultimately ignored what he said, went inside her ex’s house, and stayed there for an hour. Then, she texted him about how her child was opening their birthday gifts.
“Another hour after that, she told me she was leaving,” he detailed.
But even now, the situation is still rubbing him the wrong way. So, he can’t help but wonder if not wanting his girlfriend to go over to her baby daddy’s house after she cheated on him just days prior is really so unreasonable or not.
Does it sound like he’s trying to set an understandable boundary in the wake of the cheating? How would you feel if your partner disregarded your feelings like that?
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