His Wife’s Been Cheating On Him With Her Personal Trainer For The Last Year
Lately, this 41-year-old man has picked up on his 39-year-old wife subtly changing the way she interacts with him.
When she kissed him, it felt strange, and he just had a nagging feeling that things between them were not right.
It wasn’t overtly obvious, but it was an indication to him that something had to be up. Other than the tiny hints, their marriage has been wonderful, and their personal life is excellent.
“Due to these vibes a few weeks ago, I did something I’m not proud of,” he explained. “I looked into her phone.”
He didn’t find much, just that his wife had deleted multiple texts from her personal trainer. He recovered them, but he could only see that the conversations had been deleted several times, so there was nothing in there.
Yesterday evening, he still felt suspicious, so he waited for his wife to fall asleep before snooping through her phone again.
Once more, he found exchanges between his wife and her personal trainer that had been wiped from her phone.
He recovered 150 messages that were sent back and forth between them from the day prior. This time, the recovered texts weren’t blank.
Everything he found was awful – photos, a list of desires; you name it, it was in there. He decided to wake his wife up so he could confront her.
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“She was a bit defensive at first and asked if I had looked at her phone,” he said. “Then she broke down.”
“She admitted that this has been going on for a full year. Says that she wanted to tell me many times but was scared.”
“I, of course, can’t believe anything at this point. We talked and cried all night. Could not sleep. I asked so many questions, and she answered them, including that yes, she has feelings for the other guy.”
“She says she doesn’t see nor want a future with this person. I could see myself forgiving her if it was a one-night thing. Or, most importantly, if she had just come forward to me and admitted what she did. To at least show that she cares. But since I caught her, I don’t have that. Just feeling lost at the moment.”
His wife has told him she is going to end things between her and her personal trainer, as well as block the guy.
What advice do you have for him?
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