She Asked Her Sister’s Date If He Was Married Since She Noticed A Tan Line On His Ring Finger, And He Became Really Aggressive
When you bring a new date home for your friends and family to meet, you shouldn’t be surprised if they are a little overly observant.
A woman recently found herself in a dramatic situation after asking if her sister’s new date was married because she noticed he had a tan line where a wedding ring should be.
A few nights ago, her sister invited her over for a game night, but she didn’t realize until the last minute that her sister would have a date there.
It turned out that the guy would be a man her sister had been talking to for a month online and that the game night would be their first time seeing each other in person.
Things were going well at first, but then everything changed when she made an especially close observation,
“During the game, I noticed he had a tan line on his right ring finger,” she recalled.
“I know a lot of couples who put their rings on their right ring fingers instead of their left fingers.”
Since she hardly knew this guy and was feeling extra confident after a few drinks, she asked her sister’s date if he was married, pointing out the tan line on his finger.
Her sister’s date immediately became offended and defensive. He told a long story about how he usually wears his late father’s ring on that finger but decided to take it off that day because he had washed his car earlier.
andrii kobryn – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
He also said he had already explained himself and the tan line to her sister.
Because her sister didn’t say anything for a few minutes, her date suddenly became aggressive towards her for “not defending him fast enough” and told her it was a “red flag” that she wasn’t getting mad about the situation.
Then, she asked her sister‘s date why he was being so aggressive, and they argued back and forth, with him telling her she should’ve brought up the tan line in private.
The date would not drop his aggressive attitude, and it got so bad that she needed to call her husband and ask him to come over to her sister’s house.
Her sister’s date started acting very controlling and tried to threaten her by informing her that he was in law enforcement.
“I already acknowledged and apologized for my behavior, so I don’t know why he felt the need to keep trying to control the conversation and [go on] a power trip,” she said.
After the hectic game night, she made it clear to her sister that she believes something sketchy is going on and hopes she’ll do something about it soon.
Was she wrong to confront her sister‘s date during the game night?
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