He Found His Friend’s Fiancé On A Dating App And Told Her About It, But Now He’s Worried That He Blew Up Her Life
Just last night, this man named Liam came across something that could possibly dismantle his female friend’s entire life. More specifically, he found his friend’s fiancé on a dating app.
For some context, he actually hadn’t seen his friend in around a year and a half. However, while he was scrolling on the dating app, he came across her fiancé’s profile, and he didn’t think he could just overlook that.
“So, I decided to go over to her place to talk. I know it sounds dramatic, but I felt like she needed to know,” he recalled.
Once he showed up and knocked on his friend’s front door, her fiancé walked over, too. According to him, it was obvious that the fiancé knew he’d been caught red-handed.
“He went bright red, his face dropped – like, it was clear he knew he was caught,” he recalled.
This pushed him to take his friend outside so they could discuss the situation in private. His friend was actually already aware that her fiancé was bi, but understandably, he wasn’t so sure that she knew about him being on a dating app.
That’s why the first question he asked was whether his friend and her fiancé had some kind of “arrangement” or open relationship. She immediately said no, which led him to spill the beans about her fiancé’s dating app profile.
“I showed her the photos of his profile, explained how I found him, and even showed her the location drop where he was the first profile that popped up,” he explained.
“I didn’t sugarcoat anything. I basically asked her, ‘What do you want to do?'”
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He and his friend proceeded to have a tense, 20-minute-long conversation, and she was obviously shocked. At the same time, he felt terrible for having to break such upsetting news.
At one point, while they were still talking, his friend’s fiancé also came by to check on them.
“She tried to play it cool, saying, ‘Yeah, yeah, Liam’s okay, everything’s okay,’ but as they walked back inside, she said, ‘But we might not be after this,'” he revealed.
This has left him feeling terrible, as he had no intention of “blowing up” his friend’s relationship. He simply believed that she needed to hear what her fiancé was doing behind her back.
“But it’s such a sticky situation, and I honestly don’t know if I did the right thing or if I just made everything worse for her,” he vented.
Now, he’s unsure if he crossed a line or not.
Do you think he did the right thing by sharing what he found? Would you want to know if your fiancé was on a dating app?
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