Her Husband Made Her Cry When He Said He’s Struggling To Remain Faithful To Her Since She’s Ugly
In a recent marriage counseling session this woman attended with her husband, he blurted out that he misses her being hot and he wishes she was still attractive, but his words only got more scathing as they went on.
She’s been aware that over the years, her husband has lost his attraction to her, as he remarked on her weight, but his words were really hurtful in this particular session.
“He said everyone looked at us everywhere, and everyone complimented my appearance everywhere we went,” she explained.
“He said he missed other people saying, “Wow, she’s with him?” He missed everyone telling him that they thought he was dating a model.”
“This is true. I looked amazing when I was in my early 20s. Now I’m 28, [and my] metabolism caught up with me.”
She also gave birth 19 months back, which has contributed to her changing body. Back when she met her husband, she was 100 pounds, and now she’s 163 pounds.
She knows she is overweight, as do other people in her life, and she has gone from an extra small in her clothing size to an extra large.
But her husband didn’t just take shots at her over her weight in the session; he also informed her that he no longer recognizes the girl he thought he married.
“He said he wouldn’t [have] ever looked my way 7 years ago if I looked like how I look now,” she said.
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“He also asked why I have wrinkles already. He says when he goes out with me in public, he’s embarrassed to be next to me because it looks like he’s out with his mom. He said I really look old enough to be his mom. Wow.”
Additionally, her husband addressed her hair. She used to wear it very long, but she currently cuts it to around her shoulders, as it’s simpler to care for.
Her husband commented that she was feminine and gorgeous with her longer-length hair, but now she seems tomboyish to him with her new cut. Apparently, he feels she’s trying to intentionally appear ugly.
It also came out in the session that when her husband started his new job, he only showed his coworkers a photo of her from when she was stunning, as he was concerned if they saw what she looks like now, they would think he’s settling.
But one of the most awful things her husband said is that he’s struggling to remain “faithful” to her since she’s super ugly. This made her break down in tears.
“His words made me feel like I wasn’t human anymore,” she added. “The counselor gave us a minute. Our counselor is great; she really helped us a lot.”
“We originally started going to marriage therapy when we were planning to have children. She’s really helped us work things through and see eye to eye. After our session ended, she gave us exercises and “homework” to go over. But I just can’t shake off what my husband said about me.”
“Physical appearance is very important, I agree, but I don’t think it needs to be a #1 priority like how he makes it sound like sometimes. I wish he would love my big mom belly but he doesn’t. I know I look vastly different from when he met me when I was 21-years-old. But come on. I was 21 and things have obviously changed.”
What advice do you have for her?
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