About 10 years ago, TikToker Jasmine (@cumahocaaa) was talking to a guy she used to work with. They went out to eat a few times, and they were even supposed to go on a vacation together, but it never happened.
She can’t remember why they stopped talking, but she was dating him shortly before she met the man she’s with now.
The last she knew about this guy was that he was married, and he moved away. Well, he suddenly appeared on her social media 10 years later.
He had moved back and was divorced. He asked her out on a date, but she ignored the question because she was busy catching up with him. Then, he asked to hang out as friends, so they started planning a place to go eat.
She was a single mom, so she needed to find a babysitter. In addition, she was just about to go on vacation, so she wouldn’t be free for a few weeks.
He continued trying to plan all the details for their date, but she told him to wait until the time drew closer. He also asked her if she still had her passport because he liked to travel.
She explained that as a single mom, she didn’t have the time to talk and travel like she used to. He then asked about what kind of house she wanted to live in. He bragged about how much money he had and how he was building a house.
He texted her every day and began to get more annoying and possessive. She was confused because they weren’t even talking romantically.
He never once acknowledged the children she had or the fact that her man had passed away. He was acting like she was the same person she was 10 years ago, even though her life had totally changed.
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But what really pushed her over the edge was when he asked if she wanted more children. He didn’t have any, so he said he would want one.
Jasmine admitted that she was done having kids. He freaked out over her response, telling her that she needed to respect the fact that he wanted a child.
She asked him to stop texting her, but he kept going on and on, commenting on her social media posts as well. She had to block him because he was disturbing her peace. But it just goes to show how weird dating is these days.
“This guy was planning a whole relationship in his head, and before even hanging out, overstepping boundaries. Showed his true colors of being self-centered,” one person commented on Jasmine’s video.
“Some men think single moms are just desperately waiting for a man to come “rescue” us. Boy please. I am not Rapunzel trapped in a tower,” someone else added.
“Girl, I got overstimulated by this story. I’m a single mom, and this would drive me insane. This is why I don’t want to date or haven’t dated since I had a baby, because I just don’t wanna be bothered,” a third person said.
By Emily Chan
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