If you know a woman who’s a certified homewrecker, do you think it’s your job to slap a warning label on her and tip off the wives whose husbands could fall victim to her?
This woman’s husband has a female coworker who enjoys being a homewrecker, and she intentionally goes after married men at the company, though she makes exceptions for men in serious relationships with children.
“…She will flirt with these men for months before they eventually crack, apparently some have been strong enough and haven’t [given] in, and she would get bored and find someone else, others don’t have the willpower,” she explained.
“Not to mention she was married to her husband for 6 months, then he found out about all this, and they have now separated (good for him in my opinion).”
“In her wedding pictures, she has no girl friends there (I myself have few girlfriends, but her not having any at her wedding speaks volumes about her actions to me, not a girl’s girl).”
Now, before you ask if there are single men at the company for this girl to pursue, there sure are, and it’s a big business, so there are plenty of fish in that pond.
The thing is, her husband’s coworker is only interested in men who are not single and who have families at home waiting for them when they clock out.
This is extremely triggering for her, as her mom and dad got divorced over an affair. Her heart hurts for kids who get wrapped up in drama due to infidelity.
“…As much as it obviously takes 2 to tango, I feel so much rage towards her, as it literally seems like she’s targeting married men with families, destroying their and her marriage/s in the process,” she added.
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“I feel like messaging the wives/girlfriends of the people she is currently targeting, but I’m not sure it’s my place, and it would affect my partner.”
“I trust my partner, and he is also significantly younger than her, so as much as she clearly doesn’t care for her reputation currently, I think if it came out she slept with someone much younger, she might draw a line? Although she clearly has no morals, so can’t be sure.”
She’s furious and grossed out over what this woman is going around doing. She would love nothing more than to have someone, anyone, expose her for what she is.
It’s well known at her husband’s company that she’s a homewrecker, and she told her husband one of his coworkers has to go to HR about her.
At the very least, she thinks HR should be able to tell this woman to keep her personal and business life separate, since she is flirting with men at work and ruining marriages left and right, which impacts everyone as a whole.
“Just to be clear, I have the same feelings towards the men, as it’s as much on them as it is on her, I just think the worst part, is everyone else (who isn’t necessarily sleeping with her) doesn’t feel they can speak up in the workplace, whether [that] be from fear or other reasons, as it IS affecting their work at times,” she continued.
“It’s not fair to have to walk on eggshells. I’m not saying go and out everything, but I think she’s involved her personal life with work too much. In a sense, obviously, this is her choice, but it’s not fair when it affects their workplace.”
While what her husband’s coworker is doing is deplorable, it does take two to tango, and if men at the company are giving in to temptation, it’s equally their fault.
I think she’s so upset about this because it painfully reminds her of her own childhood, and that’s something she should acknowledge.
At the end of the day, it’s really not her business if people wreck their marriages for a girl at work, so she should stay out of this.
What advice do you have for her?
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