We all have our breaking points, so would you hit yours after your ex called CPS on you and turned the daughter you had together against you?
This 29-year-old woman is terminating her parental rights to her 14-year-old daughter and letting her ex take this kid off her hands.
For all 14 years of her daughter’s life, her ex has made things miserable, and he’s done everything possible to teach her daughter to hate her. He’s finally succeeded.
Her ex has raised her daughter to say and do horrific things to her. He’s called CPS on her every single year for the last 14 years in a row. He’s dragged her to court more times than she can count.
“I’ve spent thousands on an attorney and have kept documentation of all of this for 14 years. I have defended myself and proven every accusation to be false,” she explained.
“I am drained. I can’t fight anymore. I don’t want to fight anymore. My daughter has continued to hate me and has even told lies about me as well.”
“Some lies could’ve put me in jail had they not been investigated properly. The accusations are continuing to get worse. I’m afraid that their accusations will eventually put me in jail.”
One time, her daughter lied to her teacher and said she was home alone. The teacher called her, alarmed that she would go on vacation and abandon her daughter.
She told the teacher she could come by the school to prove that was false, or they could send out a police officer. There have just been countless incidents over the years, and she’s not the only one suffering.
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She’s been with her husband for a decade, and he has two children. They all have had to deal with the harassment from her ex’s family and all of the CPS investigations.
“It has gotten to the point that I’ve had to put cameras inside my home to protect myself and my children from the accusations. We are all tired. We just want peace,” she added.
“All I’ve ever wanted was to be the best mother that I could be for my daughter. I wanted to give her everything she needed from me and more. I’ve tried like [anything] the last 14 years to be the mother she needed and deserved, but I’ve been met with abuse at every angle.”
“I was young when I gave birth to her. I was 15 years old. I had no support whatsoever and have done everything myself. I have created a good life, a safe life. And they want to take that away from me. It seems that they will stop at nothing to ruin my life. To keep me under their control. Not anymore.”
There’s so much more she could say about what she’s had to endure throughout her daughter’s lifetime, and she’s just done with it all.
She wants to keep herself, her husband, and his kids safe, so that’s why she’s terminating her parental rights. It hasn’t been an easy decision; in fact, it’s quite painful for her.
But she’s not sure what she should keep forcing her daughter to have a relationship with her when she’s so against it.
She is completely doing the right thing here, even though it’s a difficult choice. She should no longer be a doormat to her daughter and her ex, and hopefully, this gives her and her family the peace they desperately need.
I hope that when her daughter grows up, she can see her father for what he is and has the insight to realize that he turned her against her own mom.
What advice do you have for her?
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