Chip Chick
“Just hold on to that dignity and don’t go to Jess looking for reconciliation. She’ll realize before long that she’s lost a good friend, and either apologize or spend the rest of her life being an AH.”
“That’s a lousy stunt to pull on anyone but especially a friend. It’s a “Lose, Lose” situation for you. She hit on you and you responded positively: she got upset.”
“If she had hit on you and you responded “No”: she still would have been upset.”
“Apparently she doesn’t value your relationship as much as you do. You have every right to pull back and reassess your friendship.”
“Including wondering if she’s just using you for what you do for her and how much money you spend on her: such as helping her move.”
“What she did was incredibly manipulative and I don’t think many people would take the kind of situation she put you in as anything but a clear innuendo that she’s interested. You even asked for consent before kissing her!”
“I would understand why you’d feel deeply upset at such a cruel trick and would want to blow her off the following day.”
“She can go play with someone else’s feelings. People who are okay with doing these kinds of things don’t tend to make good friends long-term. Please don’t feel bad. I would probably never speak to her again but it’s your prerogative.”
