Chip Chick
“Someone bragging at length about how awesome they are and monologuing for 30 minutes on a first date is an easy “no sale”, male or female.”
“The ridiculous overtexting just looks desperate, not “alpha”. The arrogance of telling you how much better he knows your body … lordy lordy there’s really no upside here at all is there?”
“In the future, keep it to 20-30mins, and just say something came up and leave.”
“Staying on a date for 2 hours, showing interest in someone, and trying to get to know them when you really have no interest in doing so… is disingenuous and sends the wrong signals.”
“This is a United Nations full of red flags. Block this dude and be done with him. Unfortunately, there are some guys like this out there and sometimes it’s impossible to know how someone will react in person.”
“You didn’t do anything wrong — just keep setting those boundaries and being clear and honest if you don’t want to see someone again.”
“If anything I’d say to be more aggressive about those boundaries; don’t be afraid to cut a date short if you’re seeing this many red flags and you know it’s not going to work out. Use the block buttons liberally and don’t think about these guys too much.”
You can read the rest of what the internet had to say to her here.
