“I encourage you though to take on some of the responsibility to research some of the other options and show and talk to Emma about the ones that look good.”
“Make a plan with her about how the two of you will stay in contact and try to make a visitation schedule both where you’ll come to the center AND where you will pull her out for a vacation.”
“She’s still a child and is fearful of being abandoned and forgotten. She’s probably picturing herself in the middle of a nursing home, alone with no friends.”
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