Chip Chick
“This is not a good look on him.”
“See, sometimes I’ll get a snack I like, or my boyfriend will surprise me with some and we’ll open it and snack together.”
“He would never polish it off without warning, even if he’s the one who bought it. He’ll usually jokingly say something like “you want anymore? Because you know I’m gonna eat it all before you get to it again…” and I’ll let him know if I want more or if he’s free to finish it.”
“If I tell him I do still want some, he’ll put it up and leave it alone because, y’know, he’s an adult.”
“For me, this sort of thing is a deal-breaker. Not because I’m so fond of snacks but because it’s a symptom of a larger problem-lack of respect and ignoring boundaries and simple common courtesy.”
“If someone can’t honor a reasonable request to keep their paws off your stuff, how are they going to react to the larger issues?”
“He’s telling you what is important to you (even in a small way) is of zero importance to him. People tell you who they are. Listen to them.”
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