Chip Chick
“…You have given her an ultimatum back then and she did not heed. Now sh*t hits the fan for her and she comes crying back.”
“Where is the boyfriend now? After she comes back what is her plan moving forward? Sure though she made a mistake, did you have a sit down with her at least and didn’t like how she wants to move forward with this?”
“I wanted to say she made her choices, now she gets consequences.”
“She’s 19 so you can’t dictate who she sees and definitely can’t make her give away her baby.”
“She’s only going to resent you for the rest of her life. You can choose who stays in your house, but do you want a relationship with her in the future?”
“I don’t blame you for kicking her out or not liking the boyfriend but he is the dad to her child so she is going to have to see him whether they are together or not. If you want to be a part of her life and your grandchild’s life then I think you should consider helping her out.”
“Actions have consequences. If the daughter is of legal age and old enough to live her life as she pleases then she has to accept the cold reality that she may not like the hand that she deals herself.”
“Not knowing exactly what her behavior has been, Op may very well be concerned that he and his wife might get stuck being the ones to raise the next generation. There is a lot that we don’t know and Op does have a right to say no.”
