Chip Chick
“I told him he promised to take care of everything when he became her guardian and that it was his problem.”
Now, her family and his family are aware of this, and her family is on her side…but her husband’s family thinks that she’s awful for doing this.
Here’s what the internet had to say.
“Your husband likes being the hero but doesn’t have a clue as to how to do the actual work so he just left it all to you. You have been sorely taken advantage of and I don’t think you are qualified to handle this level of need. Your niece needs expert help.”
“It has also given you a preview of what parenthood will be, you do the work, he gets to enjoy the hour or two of happy, fed, and bathed child that he can play with and hand back.”
“I also would suggest to him that he asks all his family members he “tattled” about you to, to step up and help pay for a full-time caretaker to help solve this family dilemma.”
“He took the responsibility of caring for his niece, and it is on him to find a solution that does NOT involve shoving all the work, stress, and drama onto you.”
“Good luck and enjoy working the job of your choice, not one you’re gaslight into accepting.”
“This is a really difficult situation but your husband lied and said he’d take care of her completely and then left it to you.”
